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Is It a Relationship or a Situationship?

Twelve uncomfortable questions and one clear number. Take a breath first.

12 questions · about 5 minutes

Fun relationship-clarity test built on commitment and investment themes. Entertainment only — it does not know either of you.

1. If someone asked what you two are, what would you say?

2. Have you actually had the conversation about what this is?

3. Who makes plans?

4. How far in advance do plans get made?

5. Do their friends know about you?

6. How does contact look across an ordinary week?

7. Have you talked about anything more than a month away?

8. When something upsets you about them, what happens?

9. Are either of you seeing other people?

10. How much of the time you spend together is in public, in daylight?

11. If you disappeared for a week, what would happen?

12. Honestly — do you feel secure in this?

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These tests are for education and self-reflection. They are not diagnostic instruments and should not be used to diagnose or treat a mental-health condition. Anyone feeling unsafe, overwhelmed, or at risk should contact local emergency services or a qualified mental-health professional.