Relationships

Are You Actually a Good Friend?

Twelve questions about what you actually do, not what you would do in theory.

12 questions · about 5 minutes

12 scenario choices about friendship behaviour. For reflection and entertainment — your friends are a better source than this.

1. A friend's parent dies. What do you actually do?

2. When a friend is telling you something difficult:

3. Do you remember the specifics of their life?

4. You said you would do something for them and forgot.

5. A friend is about to make an obvious mistake.

6. Who initiates contact in your friendships?

7. Their good news is bigger than anything happening to you.

8. How do you handle a friend going through a long, boring hard time?

9. They tell you something in confidence.

10. A friend tells you that you let them down.

11. How much do your friendships depend on convenience?

12. When did you last do something for a friend that cost you real time?

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These tests are for education and self-reflection. They are not diagnostic instruments and should not be used to diagnose or treat a mental-health condition. Anyone feeling unsafe, overwhelmed, or at risk should contact local emergency services or a qualified mental-health professional.